EX-pired

I realized when trend on twitter is all about #10worstfeelings or something along that line, people tend to post stuffs like..

WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?!? WHY SO EMO? *don't get it* 
Move on with life! They are over!

EX-es, means EX-pired! 

Things happen for a reason & no one really cares if you are really doing well. All they'll be doing, sending you some replies in twitter like..  

So, why make a joke of yourself? By doing so, your ex will only think that it's really a wise choice to have left you! And what do you gain after posting all these emo messages on twitter/facebook/path or whichever social networking sites. Did you gain like 1000 extra followers? Or do you even realize some of your friends actually deleted you off their list? If you don't, you've got a serious problem here. 

You need to do some self reflection from time to time. How does your actions/emo posts actually affect yourself & people around you? Not that i haven't been emo before. In fact, i used to be so emo that i shut everyone off from my life. I used to think that i couldn't love anyone else cept that person. My life will be incomplete & meaningless. Then i tried all means and ways to get my ex's attention, but i failed TERRIBLY. It took me a few years to realize this & learnt that no one can help me EXCEPT SELF. No one will love you when you don't even love yourself. 

FYI: drowning your sorrows isn't part of loving yourself.

That way, you'll only hurt your liver & your wallet too! ;)

Sometimes the best feeling is to sit and reminisce the wonderful memories & not drown yourself in sorrow. You can never be really happy unless you make it happen. No point piling yourself up with huge amount of work because we all know all the money in the world can never buy you real happiness (though it can buy you many things to make you happy D:). 

Then you asked if anyone deleted Quinie off? Yes, a few. In fact, i don't keep track of it. And i did deleted some off as well because they flooded me with their overwhelming sadness & i reckon that i cannot handle it. 

If you're still in the process of recovering from a broken, it's fine. Take your time but always remember, no one can help you except self. In the eyes of others, it's entirely your choice to be an irritating person or a happy & lovable one. Since you have a choice, why not choose the better one? :)

What say you? 

Okay, on a lighter note. Just for laughs! (bear with me even if it doesn't amuse you! =\)

And.......

Avorylane is launching another collection tomorrow at 8pm!! 

So girls, stay tune! :D 

Laters! ♥♥

xoxo,

Queen

Why your girlfriend leave you?

It probably felt surreal when your girlfriend suddenly left you. You'll be wondering if your girlfriend will ever come back to you saying that she had made a terrible mistake. There you go, spending every single day thinking "what if she's gonna leave me today?" and you forget about how she fell in love with you initially. Life between you both starts to be a routine and it became a chore to meet up with each other. Before you know it, your girlfriend has already left you emotionally. Why? No why, just BOREDOM. I know it sounds cruel but it's true.

Everyone wants excitement in life, you too. When all you do is game, work, home, eat & sleep, you can jolly well kiss your relationship goodbye. Women need communication! It takes two to clap. When she starts telling you that "you're so different from the first time i met you" or "can you stop gaming for at least a day?", you better know that she's showing signs of leaving you. And if you rebutt her by saying she's sensitive, well all i can say is GOOD LUCK! She's DEFINITELY gonna leave you. And if you think that your girlfriend loves you so much that she cannot live on without you, it may work for the first few times but NOT ALL THE TIME.

Another reason why your girlfriend wants a breakup could be also due to the constant conflicts. During the argument if you ever said something like, "I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU WOMEN ARE THINKING!", i think you definitely don't understand your girlfriend or women in general. This will only lead her into saying "FINE LA! DON'T UNDERSTAND THEN!" When women say FINE, it means GO Fxxx YOURSELF.

1 more reason why i think you really don't wanna ever step into your girlfriend's wrath. Not because she's gonna cry up all your tissues at home BUT she could probably bring up issues like:

1. why are you always commenting on your ex-gf's fb status? 
2. why you always look so happy when you talk to other girls? 
3. why do you still keep your ex-gf's photos in your computer/phone?
4. why are you still wearing the clothes which your ex-gf bought?
5. why is your ATM password still related to your ex-gf? (and the list goes on..)

Every quarrel will always end up with The Ex-gf. If you don't wanna go answering all these so called lame questions then play smart, never ever say that taboo sentence. :)

Another very crucial reason why your girlfriend leave you, is that she's been trying so many times to tell you that she wants to bring the relationship to another level yet you refuse to do anything. When she said for the first time that she wants to be married to you and you ignore, you're still safe. BUT if you think that you can continue to use the same tactic and evade all the time, then you're so wrong. Because your girlfriend will start to think you're not interested in marrying her and you're just buying time to wait for a better one to appear. You may think that you're just not ready to move up for marriage yet but by avoiding her question isn't the way. You probably wanna sit down and have a talk with her. That way she may even think that you're at least responsible in a way by assuring her that she's the one for you however just time isn't right. :)

And never think that your girlfriend left you for another one. It's rare for women to leave her love because she has fallen for someone else. Even if she has already started seeing someone else after the breakup, never think that she's a bitch because she has moved on. Most likely she's attracted to them because they are always being there providing the comfort that she needs in recovering from the broken relationship.

All the reasons mentioned above don't only apply to BGR. In fact i thought it applies to all other genders relationships too.

Women are just fragile & sensitive by nature. They need constant communication and a relationship without trust, is basically unstable. If you think you can manipulate women around your fingers, i suggest you drop that idea. Not all women are dumb & weak. You can hurt them today, be prepared that one day you'll get back the same thing or 3121241532436367 times worse from them or from another. And that's what we call The Karma.

No such thing as, "I always win". 

Alright, above all said are just thoughts of my own. I was just being random and please pardon me for any grammatical errors or spelling.

Laters.

xoxo,
Queen